Anonymous asked: i lost the boy i love. we got into a few arguements from the time we started dating. and our last one this past weekend, was bad. and we apologized but now he's ignoring me. so it's pretty much over. and im so devestated. i know its cliche, i know im young, but i dont know how im going to make it without him.
tell him how it makes you feel. even if he continues to ignore you, then at least you have the closure and “satisfaction” of knowing that in the end, you were the strong one. the one willing enough to put it all out on the table. Im really sorry that this happend, but a couple weeks or months from now, you’ll be thankful for it. life but one big learning experience. (: best of wishes. please keep updated!
p.s. its okay to feel sad without him, its hard going from being someones ‘everything’ to not having them. greivance periods are okay, but just know when too long has come(:
Anonymous asked: my and this boy now live half an hour away from each other -__- we used to talk all the time though. he would always text me first ( i have never texted him first, maybe one time) but then one day he just stopped and it's been like 2 months since we last spoke. my best friend told me he hit her up one day asking about me and saying how he caught feelings but since he lives so far away he doesn't know what to do. i did too, should i text him or something orrrr...?
Sure why not , go ahead and text him ! ask him whats goin on , maybe he just wants you to make the first move. and if he dosent respon then , dont worry about it , if he’s ignoring you then he;s not worth your time anywayss (: hopee this hellppss!
Anonymous asked: well, my family doesnt like me talking to this certain boy because they dont care for him. lol like he is the complete opposite of me but we get along so great. he got into an argument with my brother because my brother tried to tell him to stay away from me but he was not having it, lol. so now the rest of my family doesnt like im because of that yadda yadaa. hes like one of my best friends, should i continue our relationship because it makes me happy or cut him off to make my family happy?
If the guy you are in a relationship is a good guy, like genuinely a nice guy, then I think that you should tell your family that, and they should understand, they’re your family, but if there is a real reason to not like him I think you should at least think about if he’s really worth it. It’s important to please your family but I feel like if there’s nothing wrong with him and he dosent hurt you, then they should just, understand. I hope this helps ! try talking to your family about how you feel.
Anonymous asked: what should i do when i'm upset about things?
listen to music. turn up your stereo and dance like crazy. write in a journal. paint or draw. call a friend. watch a funny movie. :] - Tayy
Anonymous asked: how do i get over a guy that i fell in love with..
Well first , just make the decision to get over him and move on . Think about yourself and what you want to do , hang out with your best friends. And date other people , dont spend all your time thinkin about him. You don’t need to be in a relationshipp. Just do you girl !
Anonymous asked: I feel sad all the time. I'm depressed, and I feel ugly and fat. I feel like if someone did a 'Fuck, marry, kill?' between me and my two best friends I would always be the 'kill'. My crush has a girlfriend who is promiscuous and an attention seeker, and he's lovely and I just feel like it should be my turn to be happy for once, right? My family ignore me most of the time because my sister is more important and my brother is the only boy. I hate to be so depressing, but I just feel like giving up
Don’t give up! Things will get better, I promise. As for your crush, hopefully he will soon realize that his girlfriend isn’t the one for him, and you’ll get a chance. Even though things may seem bad now, they won’t stay like that. Try talking to someone that you really trust, and surround yourself with things that you love(:
Anonymous asked: I need help right away.Me & my bf broke up 6 months ago,he tried to go back but I didnt so I kinda dumped him.We stoped talking since then,I thought I'd never miss him. But 3 months ago I started missing him like crazy,so I told him. and now he dumped me.I almost begged him :/ I used to cry everynight for him. Now, he has a GF and so do I. He is so inlove with her, but me, with my boyfriend isnt the same case. He is not what im looking,i still miss my ex. Idk what to do!? should i wait for him
I don’t think you should wait for anyone to come around , if you told your ex how you feel and he dosent feel the same then I think you should move on, his loss. But if your not interested in your current boyfriend , you dont need to be in a relationship with him . It’s okay to be single, be independent, a boyfriend is not a necessity.
Anonymous asked: What's your view of asking a guy to hang out via online (say facebook message)? The thing is, I don't get to see him often and never have the chance to actually talk to him.
wait, you mean like ask him on facebook to hangout, or ask him to talk on facebook with you… haha sorry im a little slow today
Anonymous asked: im so stressed out all the time. i have a headache right now. there's so much i need to get done. i just wanna punch something.
get organized. write everything down that you have to do. not things that you want to happen. but write things down you NEED to do. (i usually write these things down in red) then, write things down that you want done when you have your need to do list done. make it a check list, so you know what you need done and it seems a little less complicated. then all you have to do is budget your time. I make a schedual for myself. and i always give myself a 5-10 minute break after every hour of intense work. even if its just school work. as for wanting to punch things. i know that feeling all too well. the budgeting of time and organization will help you relax. but also put some calming music on in the back ground as you work. and make sure that you drink. idk, but staying hydrated always makes me calm down. and if you have any bad feelings or thoughts rambling through your head, clear them out, write them down and then crumple up the paper. get it out of your system. i really hope this helped! -stormie rae
Anonymous asked: two guys like me, and they're adorable. sweetest kids ever. always fun to be around. but i'm not over my old boyfriend. one of the guys keeps saying "beautiful" and asked to hold my hand at school.. i jsut don't feel comfortable with it. but at the same time i do like him but we havent even talked long enough for me to even consider dating him.. plus he's younger than me. but the other guy is so much better for me but he went through a breakup recently too. idk what im doing. i like attention
oh girl. you remind me so much of myself. haha. i always have like five guys talking to me. lol. but i would not recommend dating a boy younger then you. usually, like say your fifteen. you need a boy to be 17 to have the same maturity level then you. haha. becuase they mature so much later then girls. i would say to stay true to the older boy. be there for him. and dont push too much. be there for the rebound(: haha you can be there for him, and make him feel special and he’ll be yours soon(: and you can still talk to other guys and flirt and have the attention, but still belong to the other boy(: i really hope this helped.! -stormie rae